Did you know? Orgasms can transport you to another state of consciousness! An awe-like state that almost makes you forget yourself! We are talking about cervical orgasm.
The cervix lies within. It’s the deep center of the vagina or what Kim Anami calls the “gateway of life”. In Taoist reflexology the cervix is the heart point in women. When this center is being massaged we often react through emotions. Some women feel pain, and have the need to cry, some women feel joy and have the need to laugh. Whatever lies in our heart, it wants to express itself.
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Like a timid deer, women often shy away from the cervix because it can feel painful at first touch. The womb is the women’s second heart! It’s where our integrity as women has its source and our yearning for true bliss begins. But it needs to be approached in a gentle and trusting way, so women can open themselves up for the deeper-lying pleasures.
Once we are ready to surrender into the sensation and are able to relax in the cervical area, we can experience the most powerful orgasms that exist. Yep, I tell you – mind-blowing ones.
Quick Cervical Orgasm Facts
- The Cervix is the gateway to a women’s womb.
- Historically the word cervix can be followed back to the word “deer”. Maybe that explains the sensed shyness around it.
- It has been documented since at least the times of Hippocrates, over 2,000 years ago.
- The size and shape of the cervical opening varies. In women who have not had a natural birth the cervix has a circular opening. In women who have had a vaginal delivery the cervical opening looks slit-like (so almost like a vagina inside a vagina).
- The Cervix has hundred of glands which produce cervical mucus. This mucus is like a natural clock, its consistency determines what cycle a women is in, and whether she is ovulating or not.
Open the cervix open the heart – Kim Anami
Once she trusts, once she surrenders you’ll discover deep within a place where all life begins where her deepest desires can be fulfilled. Yes, you found the cervix. A pure bliss zone.
So where is it?
Technically speaking it’s the lower part of the uterus, it’s around 2-3 cm long and has a cylindrical shape. The side of the cervix that bulges into the vagina is also where the sperm must travel through to fertilize the egg cells.
You can stimulate it best with a dildo or with your lover’s penis. Best position here is either from behind or also you riding him on top with a horizontal back and forth and movement.
The implosion of pure bliss
When I am riding on top and move my hips back and forth (instead of up and down) my cervix gets massaged in a rhythmical stroking manner. I get hotter and hotter. My womb burns with passion and I feel like I’m one step from this implosion of pure bliss. It’s that point where no-mind is involved, just pure surrendering into this sensation without any fear of the void. I use my breath to let go of my obstacles, the barriers within myself that want to take control. I breathe in deeply, and move my spine in a wave-like movement. BAM! It’s moving upwards, in a seemingly endless flow. It’s not a peak, it’s an expansion of joy! I could go on forever…
For what is it good for?
To prove to yourself that there is a powerful force of universal energy within us and all around us. To learn to surrender. Let go of control. It may also prevent cervical cancer and other medical issues around the cervix; there is no evidence on this but it definitely moves some stagnant energies. To alter your consciousness. To connect with your inner self.
What others say or do
There have been scratches on the surface in science on cervical orgasms. In an article by Barry R Komisruk, Carlos Beyer and Beverly Whipple, who “view the subject of orgasm as an experience that is an integration of body, nervous system and the mind”, they report finding very high amounts of oxytocin (the love and bonding hormone) during cervical stimulation. Cervical stimulation has been described as a “shower of stars”. The magnitude of increased heart rate, blood pressure, lower pain threshold, and activated brain regions is huge compared to clitoral orgasms. Only the orgasms that are produced by thought alone (without genital stimulation) show higher effects on body and mind. But this particular research is still in its infancy.
Tantra promotes the cervical orgasm big time. The tradition says that it’s the most beneficial orgasm of all. The cervix contracts and other parts deep within the vagina do too, while the pc muscle normally stays relaxed. Compared to the G-spot orgasm the cervical orgasm is more expansive. Tantrikas report high sensitivity beyond the physical body. It has a highly subliming effect (lifting the sexual energy upwards) to the higher chakra (energy wheels).
All around the cervix can be found tiny erotogenic spots, especially the A-Spots (posterior fornix and anterior fornix). Those spots are located under and behind the cervix. The stimulation of the A-spots may have a similar effect to the cervical orgasm.
The uplifting effect of sexual energy may bring you to a higher state of consciousness that may, according to tantric traditions, bring you closer to God, to yourself, to your soul, to the divine or to whatever you want to call it.
In Taoism the clitoris, the g-spot and the cervix are labeled as the three gates. The cervix is the third gate. They claim that all three gates play an essential role in releasing orgasmic fluids (ambrosia). The activation of the second gate (the g-spot) helps to open up the third gate (cervix). When the third gate is activated it releases a “thick, viscous fluid”, and this may feel like an opening and closing or sucking contraction during orgasm. As I wrote above, Taoists term the cervix a sacred heart spot, that may open the heart where “love and vulnerability is commonly felt” (source). The Taoists recommend the screwing technique (tiny spiraling of the sacrum) to enhance the effect and bring more awareness to the chi (energy).
Ok, maybe this is a lot to digest. So where to start first? Discover your cervix. Be determined to feel its hidden powers. Be patient. Try to reach it with your fingers, while you rest on your knees. Or use a non-toxic dildo to massage the cervix and A-spots around the cervix. What do you feel? Breathe into this area to enhance awareness.
Let your lover skills be part of your discovering journey. What do you feel during deep penetration? Is it arousing or fear-inducing? Can you relax into it? Breathe!
Ride your lover on top as described above. Shake your hips like a belly-dancer and move your spine in wave-like movements. Feel into your cervix. Picture it. Yes, visualize your gateway of life and surrender into those vulnerable emotions. Every woman has it in her, it’s just a matter of touching base with this area, acknowledging it, relax, and bam, surrender into it. Simple truth!
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Where is the cervix?
Let’s have a look first at where the cervix, which ultimately is this area that we’ll leash cervical orgasms is at. First of all, it’s at the lower part of the uterus. The uterus is that place where ultimately sperm travels up to the ovaries and eventually leads to pregnancy and the cervix is the gateway of this funnel, of this channel. When we look at the anatomy in itself, it’s quite deep in a woman’s vagina and many women don’t even know it’s there. They might have never even touched it themselves, they might have never even connected with it consciously and actually many, many women have a lot of pain around the cervix. Or on the other scale of this, they might not feel anything at all. When a man penetrating a woman he might touch there cervix, either in a very strong and bouncy way or not at all. Depending on the length of course of a man’s penis.
But, ultimately many women shy away from the sensation of the cervix because they might feel almost like a high pitched pain that is connected systematically also to this area. What have I personally experienced around stimulating my cervix, around feeling this tender part of my body. Well, a few years back I would actually have quite intense pain when I would touch my cervix or when my partner would touch my cervix in different ways during sex. I noticed that this pain was making me slow down, it was making me shy away from deeper pleasures that were in my body and I would kind of hold myself back. Right? I would hold and keep tight, I might even tense up my belly and really feel not quite ready yet to go there.
When I started to connect with this part of my body, with my fingers and also with a toy, a non-vibrating dildo. I would actually be able to go there slowly, slowly, step by step. That was maybe not possible for my boyfriend because he was all over, passionate, chomping on me. I would passionate as well, not the kind of being both present. With this extra presence that I would make love to myself and use my fingers, touch my cervix regularly. That was actually something that switched and there was a totally new quality of connection that I was able to go into.
How does a cervical orgasm feel like?
I would monument experience where my whole body would it as it was expanding, as it was getting bigger and bigger. Like taking up the room and really allowing myself to be there, to fully be present. But at the same time, without thoughts, without mind chatter, just there. This kind of cervical orgasm is not something I can make myself do, it’s something that ultimately comes as a gift, as a gift from the universe. As a sort of graceful orgasm.
What does science say?
There’s actually not much research I can find out there. But we know for sure that there is an integration happening from the mind, from the body and the nervous system. This integration is an amazing pathway to activate our blood vessels, to go deeper into new states of the brain. There’s a total new activation in the brain happening where we can experience more higher conscious state. Deeper state of brain waves.
What does tantra?
Oh my god, they actually say that it’s one of the most profound orgasms a woman can have. One of the profound energy expansions and supplications a woman has. There’s a potential for subliming the sexual energy into higher states of consciousness, into your higher chakras if you’re familiar with those terms. You can even use this on a state of bliss or a state of awakening. It’s something that might never be experienced so what can we still learn here. How can we go deeper? Or can you support your women in your life to go deeper here?
First of all, make sure to relax around this topic, it’s not about that peak, it’s not about that one single peak experience. It’s about connecting with this part of your body, healing this numbness, healing the pain that might be associated with this area. How can you do this? How can you actually go into that healing process with yourself and awaken cervical orgasmic states? Well first of all, start with your finger, like literally check it out, go to your cervix and feel it. How does this are feel like? Do you feel anything, maybe not. Do you feel pain, yes maybe. Acknowledge it and then take it from there.
You can for example, use a dildo if you cannot reach fully inside and massage this whole area around it. Make sure you reach behind the cervix and before the cervix. There is a whole nervous system that is being activated. Love hormones are flushing through your body, maybe you don’t feel it in the first moment. But maybe in the next, maybe in the next one. Will you be patient with yourself but know that the cervix is a powerful hot point where you can connect to deeper levels.
Another thing that you can do to awaken your cervix, to go into this and awaken this cervical orgasmic energy is get yourself a speculum. You can simply hop of Amazon and get one for a few dollars and these are the things your doctor actually uses to have a look at your cervix. Do that at home by yourself, it’s super easy and such an enlightening experience. I remember back then when I had a look at my own cervix, how beautiful that was, how soul touching. To simply look at the gateway of life, look at this amazing precious point that is just right there in the core of our body. Yeah, I would love to hear from you, what are your challenges around your cervix? Have you ever looked at it? How does it feel like?
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